BE A HELP TO OTHERS || MANJAJA DIFUR ||

In the last episode of my life, I was able to help thousands of young Africans coming from absolutely low backgrounds find their voices, communicate and pursue their missions with audacity. Sons of nobodies like me, with little or no privileges, education and located in the most disadvantaged locations like me found ways to still reach the world with their kingly value regardless. In this new episode of my life, I'll also be helping those whom life has treated roughly, those whose lamps are almost puffing out due to life's hard squeeze and those who, having tried so much to step out of their limitations, seem to find more and more obstacles to deal with than their strengths can seemingly carry.

The joy of conquest is in the royal feeling of having conquered. Took me over a year to discover that conquering doesn't happen when you conquer, it happens when you start to conquer. The starting, my friend, is in your decision to conquer and that's not something you read in many books; you experience them! Back then, I understood lack. I understood cluelessness and what it means to have no human help at all. Now, I understand what it means to lose everything, I understand what it means to start all over, as in absolutely all over. It's easy to get a few things going and begin to think those who aren't figuring it out fast are lazy, until you have to restart in the same time they're starting, then it occurs to you that times are harsher now than then.

In the past one year, my journey of helping people with therapy found absolutely new wings. I found that therapy, especially in Nigeria is beyond the skills school taught. Empathy comes easier with experience. The dynamics of clients and situations, their resistance to the processes that are meant to help them heal, all come easier to handle and navigate when you've been there yourself, more than if you only learned from books. I've got more and more news to share soonest. For now, please take away your attention this bald head. Me sef no know why the hairs de shift backwards like say dem de fear. 😂